WISDOM'S ARENA

  ONE MAN,   MULTIPLE WOMEN (PART 2) So this pastor I mentioned in my last edition, told me clearly in the face that there is nothing wrong with marrying or dating more than one woman; he also like those I alluded to earlier on cited some scriptures in support of his view. He mentioned that God did not have problem with Abraham, Jacob, David, Solomon and host of men of God in the past who had multiply wives and concubines. I remember he would argue from the scriptures and ask me to show him in the bible were did God explicitly say, thou shall not marry more than one wife. In all these conversation I had with these Christians, there is one thing that always stands out, that is, anybody can always pick scriptures to justify his or her inordinate desire or even advance their hidden motives. The clear example in the bible was, when Satan cherry picked scriptures to tempt Jesus Mathew Chapter 4. The bible said: “ Then the Devil took Jesus to Jerusalem, the Holy City, set him on the high

In recent years, it is almost becoming an advocacy by some Christian married men, to argue that there is nothing wrong  with marrying more than one wife. Their reasons span from the fact that some Patriarchs of the Christian faith like Abraham, Jacob, David, and the like, married more than one woman, and the fact that our forefathers had  a more peaceful and stable polygamous marriage  and, yet never experienced the kind of tumultuous marriage some Christian men who are unionized with one wife are experiencing. I have had the privilege of listening to some of these views carefully and then asking some follow-up questions just to get into the heart of this newfound theological view on several occasions. Do you know what I am finding out? I am sure your guess is as good as mine. You see the truth is that the scripture can be used by anybody to justify their actions without properly giving recourse to precepts that are consistent with the Character of God. I remember a recent conversation